How to Turn A Dull Relationship to Smokin' HOT?

This entry is written based on the current problem faced by one of my close friend. I was actually in the lack of idea of how to help him. So I was just giving him few simple tips. He tried and succeed though. Hee :)

So, when things got cold, you may try this :
1. Have a LITTLE fight.
- When I said LITTLE, I literally mean that you should create just A BIT of drama. Okay, just fight over something silly when there's not much things to be fight of. Then judge the situation. If it seems like he's not trying to repair the situations, then you should. Go, apologize. Use sweet words. Make him/her melt of listening to every words you uttered.

2. Make a surprise!
- Well you know, when the relationships are getting cold, but you are not willing to gamble your fate by creating drama, maybe by giving him/her a surprise might help to warm up the love. As a partner, you should know at least a few details of where is your lover's whereabouts, activities, and favorite. Hence use these data. Find something of his/her interest, make a surprise, do it as sincere as you can. Because the key of doing a great thing is by doing it sincerely.

3. Have a talk.
- Okay, this is taking the least effort to do. All you need is just to have time, you, and your partner. have a talk. If he/she seems like not realizing the coldness of the relationship as much as you do, remind her/him. Make a simple start. You may start by saying :

~I missed our old time
~I remembered those lovely days we had before
~I wish I could make you fall in love with me everyday
~Err, or whatever suits your style. Well, different couple are leading their different styles of loving right?

Make sure during the talk, everything you wanted to say were delivered correctly. Do not use harsh words. Be sensitive of your partner's feeling. At this point, your relationship are cold and fragile. Anything you do might be a total turn off OR a great new start!

4. Do/explore new things together
- Offer your partner to do something new. Something that look quite attractive to him/her. As a suggestion, have a picnic by the lake side or at the lake garden. You may also explore new games such as rock climbing or any games. By doing it together, this may be the greatest moment for your partner after being introduced to the new things they never done before.

Good luck with trying these tips! If it doesn't help, then google something new. These are my home-made tips and it had always been working on me. Good luck! :)